The Adults of the World
are charged with the responsibility of protecting, nurturing, and loving the
2.2 billion souls among us who are children – Our Children – the Next Generation of Leaders, Husbands, Fathers,
Wives, and Mothers We invest energy and
time into teaching Our Children powerful life lessons. Our Children instinctively know that Life is
magical and full of possibilities. In
their world, obstacles do not exist. They have a way of transforming the most
mundane activity into an adventure.
As a general rule, there is nothing eventful
about food shopping. And that is the
mindset I had when I recently embarked upon my weekend pilgrimage to the grocery store. The Universe thought otherwise. It arranged for me to cross paths with an
extremely articulate, brilliant, and bright-eyed
four year old boy who would give me quite a lot to think about. The young lad was
accompanied by a woman -- his grandmother -- who struck up a conversation with
me as we waited in a very long line to pay for our groceries.
“ . . . The
village is gone in our communities. When
you see children misbehaving, you cannot say anything to them because you are
afraid that their parents will confront you.
And children as young as seven and eight years old are out in the
streets all hours of the night. I see
them walking around at night – playing in the street,” she
lamented.
“Where are
their parents?” I asked as she gave me an “Excuse-me-are-you-serious?” look.
Now, I am not naïve. I have some idea
about what is going on with their parents. But what I thought was not important
here. I wanted to see things through her
eyes.
“It’s
babies having babies out here. The parents are young and they let the children
do what they want,” she explained.
“Where are
the grandparents?”
“Grandparents?! Huh?! You
can’t tell these parents today how to raise their children. And that is why
everything is out of control. It’s going
to get worse. All you can do is
pray. Well, we have an election coming
up in a few days. Maybe we can get folks into office who can do something about
this. What do you think?”
“Change
comes from the bottom up – at the grassroots level. The community will have to decide how it will
solve its problems.”
“This is
my grandchild and his mother is very strict with him,” she said
as she held the precocious four year old close to her. He glanced up at me as he engaged his
grandmother in a conversation. The young
lad was trying to persuade his grandmother to purchase a small toy he found in
one of the aisles. She reminded him that
he had more than enough toys at home and instructed him to return the toy to its location. Before following her instruction, he responded
by demurely telling her: “But I need this.” I was struck by his advanced level of
articulation. Most children who attempt
to persuade an adult to acquiesce to their request, talk about what they “want”.
The conversation is always about what they “want”. This young lad’s
conversation was not about his “wants”, but about his “needs” -- a conversation that immediately captured my
attention. As I looked at him, I
silently mused: “I ‘need’? Now, where is that coming from? What four
year old child says, I ‘need’? ”
“Your
grandson is very articulate and very bright.
How old is he?”
“Thank
you. Yes, he is very smart. He is four years old and I am trying to get
him into preschool. He reads a lot. He loves reading books.”
And then glancing at me for a fleeting moment,
the young lad repeatedly exclaimed half playfully and half seriously, as he
raised both of his arms high in the air above his head: “Are you ready for me world?”
“Oh,
that’s just something he heard on television,” his
grandmother explained to me.
As the four year old’s
Grandmother and I ended our conversation, I silently wondered: “Who is this child? What does he intuitively know about himself .
. . the reason he is here on Planet Earth . . . his gifts and talents? Am I looking at a soul who is destined to have
a positive and dramatic impact on the world when he matures into an adult?”
Are all four year old little boys who exist in
every corner of our global village
asking:
“Are you ready for me world?”
Did this question occupy the mind of Nobel Peace Prize Laureate and South African
President the late Honorable Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela -- whose middle name
“Rolihlahla” is a Xhosa name which means “pulling the branch of a tree”, but
colloquially means “trouble maker” – when he was four years old? Did Vietnamese Buddhist Monk Thich Nhat Hanh,
global spiritual leader, author, and fouinder of The Plum Village Tradition (https://plumvillage.org); the
late Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi, lawyer, politician, social activist, and
leader of the Nationalist Movement against British Rule of India; the late
Steve Jobs, the founder and Chief Executive Officer of Apple; Nobel
Peace Prize Laureate and American Civil Rights Leader the late Dr. Martin
Luther King, Jr.; and Ghanaian diplomat; Nobel Peace Prize Laureate, and
seventh Secretary-General of the United Nations the late Honorable Kofi Atta Annan ask –
silently or aloud – at the age of four: “Are you ready for me world?”
Is our world – in its present condition –
ready for articulate, precocious, and bright four year old little boys who
represent the Next Generation of Leaders, Husbands, and Fathers? These
souls are looking at our world through an expansive lens of hopefulness and
endless possibilities. They
enthusiastically ask, “What if? Why not?”
Can you imagine the powerfully
positive impact these souls who are armed with a dynamic and fearless “What-if-why-not-are-you-ready-for-me-world”
mindset will potentially have on a world that seems to operate from an “upside
down” position?
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